In the ever less than perfect world where all bad things happen and where all misfortune are present, it is but necessary that you have someone to rely to if you fell this world is especially crumbling upon you. However it is not good to just choose anyone to your liking. There are signs that you should take note when choosing a best friend.
Here are simple 10 signs that you are really best buds:
1. Both of you have shared so much and learned so much about life that you think you are worthy to be featured in TV series or to be included as guests in media interviews and whose stories are noteworthy to be written as novels. This one sign will make you look back of the times you have together through good and bad yet you still stick to one another.
2. No dull moments. Even if you are not talking to each other, you still feel comfortable and at ease even in silence. However when you do talk to each other it seems like you don't have enough time to talk about things you want to talk about.
3. You are always sending each other dedication every once in a while if not everyday. Your organizer is ready to burst with all the post-it and reminders he or she is sending your way.
4. He or she can cheer you up during the times you will need him or her around. He/she is the kind of person who will make every event in your life as his/her own then at your lowest times; he/she is there to be the shoulder you can cry on.
5. You miss each other like crazy. You can never simply sit in one corner thinking about your friendship, you let him/her know even if it means costly phone credits and bills. And he/she does the same. He/she also let's you know that he/she feels exactly what you are feeling.
6. You imagine him/her as the godparent of your future kids even if it will still be decades before having one. It is easy for you to think about the future ahead and your friendship with him/her.
7. You share codes for everything. And these codes are only just between the two of you. Whatever one of you talks about, the other completely understands even if you are only using your body to communicate.
8. He/she has the nerve to tell you just how crazy your look is or how bad your fashion taste is. He/she can tell you all the negative things you should know and not pretend to like what you say or do. He/she openly discusses what wrong there is to you.
9. You can call her just about anytime whether it is 2 AM or 12 MN. Even if you wake him/her up in the middle of his/her wonderful dream just to vent all your anger resulting from your disaster date, he/she is an ever willing party to listen.
10. You talk to him/her just about anything in life, school and love. You openly tell him/her your secrets without any hesitation or fear of being exposed. In other words, you completely trust her.
Those are just simple signs that you both share the same ideals and ideas which will make you as perfect buds. You can rely on each other not only during bad times but you also enjoy each other's company during good times. Such is the essence of friendship.
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